The way that you are doing it now seems great to me. I mean we are both over Hes told me he loves me and considers me his wife, but he said he wont marry me or live with me. I do not understand this. I made up my mind that night to end it. Too bad. And when appropriate, discuss them with your partner so you two are on the same page about why you are or are not ready to share an address.
“After Ten Years, We Still Don’t Live Together”
Too often, couples compare themselves to their peers, but it's impossible to measure the success of two totally different relationships with the same timeline or metaphorical yard stick. He promises we are getting married and having children, but still no proposal. Our marriage has not been without bumps on the way but, ultimately, I made a wonderful choice and. LW, you need to work out what you actually want. I love getting to see my husband every day and we get along very well. He may love her and want to be with her, but 3 kids none of his own is a huge commitment.